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Don’t Wish To Become A Better Person, Be Proactive In Being The Best.
I thought manifesting the best version of me would make me happy.
It just made me more miserable.
I took courses, spent thousands of pounds, read hundreds of books and thought I had a crystal clear understanding of what I needed to do to manifest my desired future self into being. The truth is, nothing worked. All the tips and tricks I had encountered along the way just made me realise what a great big failure I was at life. I was shit at this game.
Then along came the book that would change my life forever.
The New Pyscho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz was the gamechanger I had been seeking for many years.
This book revolutionised my internal dialogue; I was able to turn my life around and kick my inner critic into touch.
I had suffered from negative self-talk all of my life; I was the queen of self-destruction. Learning to disassociate from a young age ensured that I could keep myself well protected. The problem was, I remained in a state of aggression and anger.
Wishing to be a better person was always the dream; there were so many people I would rather be than me. I hated myself so much that I couldn’t manifest anything, not even…
